On the web I started with chatgpt, and it turns out that it makes more sense than claude or gemini.
Though gemini is way faster.
In emacs I started with Zephyr, and you know? I think it just does the best with defining words. (Which is what I use the most in emacs)
With coding, I started with claude in cursor, and man it really kills it. I switched to chatgpt and you know it just wasnt the same.
So, basically, you just like the thing you used first and there's no objective measure to anything.